Wednesday, November 30, 2005

November thanksgiving 26: our messy house

(hurrying to get this in before midnight tolls :-)
Ever since our son was born, whenever children visit, they leave toys strewn all over our the house. Children love our house, because we have so many toys; I used to buy almost every one sighted in the hands of a therapist and then some. For the first several years of our son's life, I would leave these toys where they lay for days. I was so happy to see the them picked up, played with, and carried around. Usually, they stayed primly in place on their shelves. It took effort to get our son to pay attention to toys; he did not pick them up on his own, let alone carry them around the house.

Since our son began walking independently last summer, at the age of seven, our house always has something lying around out of place.* Last night he took the measuring spoons from the counter, took them into the living room, got them separated, and then they ended up on the kitchen floor. The other evening, he checked out the bathroom and my toothbrush and (lidless) lip gloss ended up on his bedroom floor. His eyes fall on something at his eye level; he finds it interesting, carries it around until he finds something even more interesting, and drops it where he stands.

Today, I am Thankful for a messy house, bearing mute testimony to son's increasing attention span, and continuously developing fine and gross motor skills.

*A partial survey of the floor starts with the ring-stacker star, the Wiggles Big Red car, Casper the friendly ghost (stuffed), Greg Wiggle, and a padded baseball bat.

5 comments:

  1. Ha, ha. As you see, I still leave them on the floor. And now I can call it gratitude. Viva la mess!

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  2. So thankful for your post on being thankful for a messy house! It blessed my heart and encouraged me to be more thankful for the toys I continually trip over or have to take up and put on the top shelf while Daddy is on the phone because they are too loud!!! Praise the LORD for little ones and the joy they get from playing with TOYS!!! : )

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  3. Thank you, and Amen! :-) You're little guys are such cuties. And now I have a picture of you in my head as Angelina Jolie. :-)

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  4. What a poignant post. And I can relate. Am thinking back to the first few times the kids left home for extended periods - the tidiness was almost spooky. One does get used to it again though.

    Wishing you lots more toy trails as your son continues to make progress.

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  5. Thank you, Violet.

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